I've been reading through the latest issue of Darling Magazine that I started on a recent trip to Pt Reyes. I've been a Darling reader for years now. I love their mission and manifesto. I love the content of the magazine and the fact that none of the models are retouched. This year they'll be coming out with a documentary called self(i.e.). This film explores self portraits, and the culture around it. There's an article about it in the magazine's latest issue, and this part of it really struck me:

...We accept and affirm images and moments as real, when the truth is that they are often anything but. The open secret we all know to be true is that the social spaces have evolved beyond simple methods to share unique moments and images to platforms where we aspire to our best selves, often blurring, literally and figuratively, the real image and moment for one that is altered to be more beautiful, happier, more successful, more perfect.

My goal with photography is to capture the real and authentic moments. My goal with photography is to help women realize their beauty within, and their outward beauty. It feels like you have to fall into one extreme or the other. You can love yourself and come off as self-important or vain. Or you can pick yourself apart and come across as insecure and self-loathing. We need more conversation around self-care and self-empowerment - not to be dependent on accomplishments or accolades or what you do or don't do. We should feel proud do the little things and the big things. We should recognize the areas we need/want to improve physically, mentally, spiritually. We need to lift others up and come along side those that are struggling.

Photography has helped me make new connections and important friendships. It's also brought out a confidence in myself, both behind the camera and in front of the camera. It's helped me learn how to speak up for myself, how to reach out for help, and how to share my voice literally and creatively. So here's to going into the new year with awareness and authenticity.

xxo